Wherever you are in your heart and mind at the outset of a relationship is where you will be at the end.
Whatever you bring to the start of a relationship is what you will have to clean up in the end.
You cannot begin a relationship of dishonesty and deceit and hope to experience an honest end.
If you run into a relationship to get away from another, you will run into another one to get away from this one.
If you enter a relationship in fear, anger or grief, you stand a pretty good chance of finding more of the same.
If you enter a relationship in sadness, desperation and pain, guess what?
You will find it again.
If we want to put an end to angry, bitter and ugly separations, we must begin our relationships with the open, loving honesty we say we want.
If we do not know who we are and how we feel at any time, it is best that we stay alone.
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This is one of the mist beautiful thoughts ever. I believe it.
Peace
"If you run into a relationship to get away from another, you will run into another one to get away from this one."
Yup...because it's like running away from ourselves.
"If we do not know who we are and how we feel at any time, it is best that we stay alone."
Amen.
Thanks for this sharing, Mel!
Hope you had a super Saturday!
(((( Mel ))))
X
Um - can we change direction mid-relationship? I mean is the whole thing set in stone from the start? That would be sad.
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