As we practice healthy detachment with the people in our life, we slowly begin to learn the truth. Detaching, preferably detaching with love, is a relationship behavior that works.
We learn something else too. Detachment - letting go of our need to control people - enhances all our relationships. It opens the door to the best possible outcome. It reduces our frustration level, and frees us and others to live in peace and harmony.
Detachment means we care, about others and ourselves. It frees us to make the best possible decisions. It enables us to set the boundaries we need to set with people. It allows us to have our feelings, to stop reacting and initiate a positive course of action. It encourages others to do the same.
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More wise words Mel. :)
Excellent fairy thought today, Mel!
"It opens the door to the best possible outcome. It reduces our frustration level, and frees us and others to live in peace and harmony."
I agree. Detachment enables us to support someone through a decision, by empowering them to make the right decision for themselves. And then honoring their decisions; without attachment.
GREAT reminder, dear lady!
Thanks for sharing!
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