An unexpressed feeling is like a rubber band being stretched to its limit. The longer you hold on to the feeling, the more the tension grows. Eventually something has to give, or the rubber band is going to snap. When that happens, someone is going to get hurt!
More often than not, the reason you do not express your true feelings is because you believe what you feel is wrong. You may remember the last time you felt this way about something or someone. When you shared what you felt, it was rejected or challenged. That memory is now hovering right below the surface of what you feel, and you are not about to run the risk of making someone else angry!
Perhaps you are trying to protect other people from your feelings. You may believe that they cannot handle your feelings. You don't want to hurt or upset them. Unfortunately, your plan is not working! They are already upset! They are constantly upset with you because somewhere in their being they know that there is something you need to say. Keep this in mind when you are withholding your feelings: you are always having an unconscious relationship with people. This means that they already know the very thing you think they don't know. In fact, they, like you, know that there is a collective healing attached to the expression of feelings. The question is, are you willing to be healed?
3 comments:
Brava!
I LIKE this one, A LOT!
And one that I needed to hear.
"In fact, they, like you, know that there is a collective healing attached to the expression of feelings. The question is, are you willing to be healed?"
Yes.
Thank you, fairies. And thank YOU, Mel!
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oh yes
I know this one
thanks for the reminder
What if it's more that you don't know if you have the right words to express them?
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