Hmmmm......

When we don't ask for what we want and need, we discount ourselves.
We deserve better.
Maybe others taught us it wasn't polite or appropriate to speak up for ourselves.
The truth is, if we don't, our unmet wants and needs may ultimately come back to haunt our relationships.
We may end up feeling angry or resentful, or we may begin to punish someone else for not guessing what we need.
We may end the relationship because it doesn't meet our needs.

Intimacy and closeness are only possible in a relationship when both people can say what they want and need. Sustained intimacy demands this.

Sometimes, we may even have to demand what we want. That's called setting a boundary.
We do this not to control another person, but to gain control of our life.

Our attitude toward our needs is important too.
We must value them and take them seriously if we expect others to take us seriously.
When we begin to place value and importance on our needs we'll see a remarkable change. Our wants and needs will begin to get met.

I was going to claim not having a problem with asking for what I need.
Maybe I do, maybe I don't.
I don't ask for much.
There's not much that I 'need' that's left out there, not being brought to me in some form or another.

Rest time--that's probably the toughest thing I have asking for.
Even when I'm weary.
Truth is, G-d makes arrangements for me. LOL Sometimes not so pleasantly, but He does get me that time to rest.

The Brit tells me I'm a cheap date. LOL
Probably more about my 'wants'--but there you have it!