*limping* Fairy Zinger

There are times when, for no apparent reason or for no good reason at all, people decide that you are not likable. They may even profess to hate you! They will say things to you or about you that will hurt your feelings. Sometimes, they will go out of their way just to be mean and nasty to you. No matter how hard you try to make them like you, they won't! This does not make them bad people. Oh, no! It simply means that they may have "stuff" going on with them that has nothing to do with you. And that will trigger your stuff! That's right! The behavior of the people who don't like you will bring up your abandonment issues. Your issues about being rejected. Your issues about not being good enough, or not doing things right enough. The minute you discover that somebody you think is important to you doesn't like you, all your people-pleasing stuff will be triggered, and you will be forced to deal with it. What a blessing! This is precisely the stuff you need to heal.

Until today, you may have been concerned because you know that there are people who, for one reason or another, just don't like you. Just for today, concern yourself with figuring out why you think they should.