There is more to enjoying life than just collecting objects or experiences that will impress others. The most sublime enjoyment is enjoyment for its own sake.
Are you constantly concerned with what advantage you’ll gain from life’s experiences? Then you’ll end up with a lot of advantages but not any real enjoyment.
Pleasure can be nice; yet pleasure does not equal enjoyment, and the pursuit of mere pleasure can end up enslaving you because pleasure chains you to some specific object or condition. If pleasure is your primary objective, as time goes by you’ll need more and more of it but enjoy it less and less.
There is just as much enjoyment to be found in the small, simple, subtle things as in the big, noisy impressive things. Let go of the need to impress or to pile pleasure on top of pleasure, and allow yourself to genuinely enjoy.
You can find enjoyment in just about anything, with no conditions, prerequisites or limitations. Even in the midst of extreme difficulty, the possibility for real enjoyment is always present.
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I enjoy it when things are pleasant, sometimes. Not all the time, 'cause the fairies are telling me I can't, or shouldn't.Maybe what they mean is that in looking and finding and gathering pleasant things, we miss out on some true happiness and enjoyment. That must be it. I get that too and like it when life is enjoyable. And I try to make it so when I can, for myself, and for others.
I hope you have enjoyed my bantering, Mel, or whoever you are.
Peace
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