Friday, July 20, 2007

Another TFTD

Trying excessively to make a point with another may mean that we have not yet made that point with ourselves.
Once we make that point with ourselves, once we understand, we will know what to do.
The issue is not about others understanding and taking us seriously.
The issue is not about others believing we're good and good enough.
The issue is not about others seeing and believing how responsible or loving or competent we are.
The issue is not about whether others realize how deeply we are feeling a particular feeling.
We are the ones that need to see the light.

2 comments:

Fire Byrd said...

oooohh I like this one. Very thought provoking.
px

I, Like The View said...

hmmmmm

think if I'da had that one today, I'da tossed the book. . .

and then shuffled back and taken the point on board

:-)