As we walk through life, there are many things and people we may lose, or lose out on, if we are unwilling to commit. We need to make a commitment for relationships to grow beyond the dating stage, to have the home or apartment we want, the job we want, or the car we desire.
We must commit, on deep levels, to careers - to goals - to family, friends, and personal growth. Trying something will not enable us to succeed. Committing ourselves will. Yet, we need never commit before we are ready.
Sometimes, our fear of commitment is telling us something. We may not want to commit to a particular relationship, purchase, or career. Other times, it is a matter of our fears working their way out.
Wait, then. Wait until the issue becomes clear. Trust yourself. Do the work needed to remove your fear of commitment. We need to be able to commit, but we need never commit until we are ready.
1 comment:
I love this Mel, because it can pertain to so many areas in our life!
" it is a matter of our fears working their way out.
Wait, then. Wait until the issue becomes clear. Trust yourself."
Exactly. And for me it's usually about trusting that voice within which never steers me wrong.
Great reminder, dear lady. And thank you!
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