Tuesday, June 17, 2014

TFTD



. . . we have some unfinished business between us.  
When we respond to the small signals that something is amiss, we prevent bigger problems. 
When we feel fear in our relationship, it signals that we have some unfinished business between us. 
When we ask the questions we have been avoiding, we create new possibilities for resolution. 

Our fear is a signal that something does not feel safe. If we tell ourselves that our fear is illogical and discount it, or if we overreact by totally pulling out of the situation, we miss opportunities to change it.  
What a relief we feel as we make sense out of our fear and begin to talk with the other person. 
We let go of secrets between and work toward mutual understanding. 
As we communicate, the knot in our stomach loosens and light reappears in our relationships.  
Name the signals your body gives you to indicate tha
t something in your relationship needs attention.

1 comment:

english inukshuk said...

ok

I will

(but I'll spare you the list)

(-:

XXX