So the bank calls and says you're overdrawn, and you don't know how that can be. You've been trying to carefully watch your deposits and checks. You've gone out of your way not to mess up. This can't be right!
What do you do when life seems to force you to react? You can panic, become anxious, yell, and respond with a counterattack. But that probably won't solve the problem. And it may turn things into a brawl.
Or you can calm down. Breathe deeply. Tell yourself to relax. Say as little as possible, if that's possible, while you're upset and disturbed. If a problem or disturbance that's not fair interrupts your life, try responding by saying hmmm.
Then calm down and decide what you need to do.
There's a time to get upset, yell, scream, and shout. But that time isn't when you're trying to sort out problems. Before you take action, get centered, calm, and clear.
You will discover that when you're centered and calm, you're more powerful than you think.
God, help me start sailing through life with more ease by learning to relax and let life be.
:-/ Hmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmm.........
2 comments:
No matter how hard that is, it DOES work. :)
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Ahhh yes, I do need 2 relax much MUCH more than I do .....
Maybe If I looked more like the girl in the picture below, I could relax more....
:o
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