Would you rather be with someone for the wrong reason or alone for the right reason?
I've had the opportunity to do both. And Ohhhh what fun! *rolling eyes* I gleened a whole lot of lessons in both circumstances. The lessons were equally hard learned. LOL I'm a "two by four" learner, also lovingly known as "an experiential learner". (it just sounds nicer, it's STILL painful)
Alone for the right reasons would be my preference. Mostly because it limits who's being affected in the long run....or so I'd like to think. But frankly, even in the 'alone for the right reason' people were still being affected. I'd like to believe that the lessons learned in my 'aloneness' were ones that weren't shrouded and confused by all the 'relationship' garble.
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Alone for the right reason, most definitely. But I've stayed with someone for the wrong reason too... It's so much harder being with someone and unhappy, than by yourself and unhappy.
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