Wednesday, June 06, 2007

TFTD

Words and magic were in the beginning one and the same thing, and even today words retain much of their magical power.--Sigmund Freud

We shape our experiences with the words we use to describe them.
Word images create expectations and we naturally move toward them.

When a person says, "I can't!" they are commanding their unconscious self to be helpless.
When they have a picture in their mind of moving toward their goal, they may say, "It's hard, but I'm going to give it my best effort."
If, every time they makes a mistake, they mutter berating statements to themselves like, "You idiot! You can't do anything right," they are teaching themselves to be inadequate.


It's our responsibility to use respectful, honest, health-giving words.
We can no longer use defeating, shaming, or derogatory words.
Let's meet our difficulties with our strengths and respectful words for ourselves.

3 comments:

I, Like The View said...

sorry sigmund, but I just have to share this with mel:

that Scabious Fairy is one of my favourites, I used to have her in a book and my mother used to grow scabious in her garden. . .

:-)

RubyShooZ said...

I'm pulling on those bootstraps Mel, could you give me a hand with 'em - pretty please?

Hugs!~

skinnylittleblonde said...

'Thank You' Mel.

Last night my sis & I were talking about how the littlest of words from even someone we don't even know can mean so much.
Little words like Hi! Thank You! and sometimes it's not even a word, but a sound like Awwww or even, hahahha. The b
The butterfly effect takes hold and those few words travel through the mind and come spilling back out in yet another positive flow that continues to prove that Love Grows... even from stranger to stranger.