Monday, June 25, 2007

"I think I'll go to the AlAnon meeting...."

Great. Drive safely--the deer are out.

"Does that bother you--I mean, that I'm going to a meeting?"

Ummmmm...nope. Is it suppose to?

"No, no. I just think it would be good for me to go."

Okey dokey.......have a good meeting.

"It's the Monday night one--it's still at the church."

Great! Then you'll know folks there. They'll be glad to see ya, I'm sure.

"Right then...... Are you sure you're okay with this?"

Dearheart, if your going depends on me being 'okay' with it---you REALLY must need a meeting, huh?




*shaking head*

NOT that I'm one to decide what he needs to do. I'm very conscious of my part in the whole deal. And I can't imagine I've been all that 'fun' to live with as of late.

Fact is, I've already established that "I SUCK!".

But getting my 'approval' for a meeting?
Isn't that like getting his 'approval' for meeting up with wisepersoninmylife or meeting with a pigeon or two or three, or going to my weekly meetings.....
*scratching head*

Am I suppose to have his 'approval'?
LOL CRAP!
I thought I was just hoping for his support along the way.
*scratching head*
....k......I'll call wisepersoninmylife but if he laughs------

6 comments:

RubyShooZ said...

Sounds like he's being supportive - and it sounds like you're in a bit of a storm lately and my friend, I know very well that you're going to sail through it with flying colors.

(I hope you don't see this as "approval".) :)

Peace, love and understanding~

mig bardsley said...

Mel, I have to disagree with you (this happens about once a millennium so pay attention)

YOU DO NOT SUCK!
See.

I'm sure this is something you need to work on...ask those reading fairies and that wisepiyl.

And to put the whole thing positively (see, I've been paying attention) You are a wise, clever, funny, compassionate caring lady with lots of courage and fortitude.

And a rockin' girl blogger to boot.

mig bardsley said...

I hope I'm not being annoyingly over-emphatic about that:)
xxx

mig bardsley said...

Oh, I just read an earlier post.

No no no. YOU don't suck. It maybe sucks that you let some thing slip in your relationship...but that's the thing that sucks, not you.

Fire Byrd said...

Ok so in my last comment I was prepared to humour you....

But it's going on too long now... So repeat after me I am a gorgeous sexy bright warm wonderful woman, who just might be in a bad patch. But that doesn't mean I suck,
Got it....

You are lovely Mel. And you need to believe that.

We all have frightful stuff to deal with, otherwise we wouldn't be human. And we so need to be kind to ourselves when we are going through it. Cause otherwise our self destruct buttons are pushed into overload.

Take care of you, you are so worth it.
((((((mel)))))
pxxx

Mel said...

:-)

It's a very good thing I know the problem doesn't define me--and it's not really a 'problem' so much as an opportunity to smack myself along side of the head and get moving.

I know ya'll know that *I* know it's just another growth opportunity. ;-)


Another freakin' growth opportunity! (AFGO!!)
Wheeeeeeee!!!!!!
Wooooohoooooo!!!

:-D

(no worries--all things happen for a reason and I'm gonna trust the process....whatever that means. LOL)