What red flag would alarm people in your life that something has gone awry?
I'm a creature of habit. I have 'routines'.
If I don't DO the routine/habit--alarms go off and questions get asked.
Even *I* ask myself the questions. I don't delineate from routines willy-nilly. And when I start to give myself excuses/rationalizing away NOT doing what I do....it's probably wise that I do ask the questions.
Even *I* ask myself the questions. I don't delineate from routines willy-nilly. And when I start to give myself excuses/rationalizing away NOT doing what I do....it's probably wise that I do ask the questions.
If I'm not outta bed by 5am--come looking and be ready to dial 9-1-1! NOT a good sign.
If I'm back in bed before nite-nite has to happen....NOT a good sign. And no, I won't ring the physician--JUST sayin'......
If I'm missing meetings, not connecting people I generally 'connect' with...run for the hills! This is definitely NOT a good sign. LOL
If there's a reading book in the middle of the hallway--silently bring me coffee, and run like hell after it's delivered. And for goodness sakes.....don't say ANYthing. :-/
There's more--trust me.
I've set it up that way.....I've given permission for folks to know what's what--even if they don't know WHAT...they know to go asking, searching and looking.
I spent a lot of time making things look like they weren't--master con, frankly.
It's good that I have it set up-- Sometimes I even lie to ME.
:-0
4 comments:
Mel,
We are all creatures of habit. Of course!
I think that (Just generally, speaking; no flinger poing tocards you), these habits get TOO comfy.
"The confort zone". Even if sometimes, it is not always good stuff to snuggle up to...
My confort zone iS( working with success with this) fear of reaching out to new people/situations. I know very well what it is to hear,see and feel m'y own alarms! Woo!!
xox
Oh my word, you and I are like two peas in a pod.
" And for goodness sakes.....don't say ANYthing. :-/"
THANK YOU.
The best way to handle me when I'm out of sorts is to just be silent and not ask, "Are you alright? Is there anything I can do?"
Yeah.....BUZZ OFF!
HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA!
Oh, we Libra's are characters, aren't we?
(((((((( You )))))))))
X ya, dear lady!
Good heavens Mel! Suddenly you sound quite scary : )
Well I expect Himself knows when to call for help without having to ask you.
I'm a bit crap and being grumpy. It takes all of...ooohhh...about three seconds to get out of me what it is that is bothering me. I ALWAYS feel better once I've spoken about it and it never lasts for very long...something usually makes me laugh or I forget that I'm supposed to be grumpy! Yeah, not very good at it all :-)
C x
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